Mute, unfollow, block and delete.
Yap, I said it again.( maybe warming up)
PS am not here to fuel any kind of hate or cause trouble.
We live in times where technology has made it extremely easy for us to keep up with each other through social media, Whats App, Facebook, Instagram, snap chat and so forth. So, we can basically get to know what everyone is doing at any one-time if they really want to let us in.
But we need to be true to ourselves and realise the space we are in, the mindset at that moment and know that we can and cannot tolerate.
We need to understand that we are different, we are in different spaces for reasons we cannot explain hence we cannot agree or be happy we what the other is doing.
If you have a job, it’s only understandable you will post a selfie in your office at the start of the day, and there is nothing wrong with that, that is your reality. But if by any chance that job you want is taking longer and you feel a certain way when one updates that selfies, friennndd, please mute them. Yes!! Click mute. The only thing you will get every time you see their status is hate, frustration, anger, you will start feeling a certain type of way and it’s not worth it. The earlier we realize we have different callings and timings, then it won’t be an issue.
You have clearly just broken up with the love of your life, or you thought so, but someone in your contacts is having the time of their life with their partner if you start feeling a type of way. Please mute until further notice.
See where am going with this one?
Tamie Roman, a reality TV star once said that we need to separate your needs and our wants. If you are following someone and they make you feel less of a person, unfollow them because you might put yourself and family at risk trying to keep up.
We find ourselves following various people for various reasons, maybe inspiration , style etc and whatever accomplishment but we need to be real with ourselves that we may not afford the trips to Dubai every year( This home of Wakanda has an amazing scenery y’all), eating out( Ps you can make a boom meal at home) so here it goes unfollow them, you will start asking the ‘’Why me?’’ questions and you will do the most to keep up and the cycle continue.
Remember, you don’t need to follow every celebrity in town, stalk their pages but when that feeling comes up, turn off your phone.
Guys the functions are there use them. You know when it’s time to BLOCK AND DELETE, you know, like when someone is constantly body shaming others,you don’t want to follow that account.
Don’t be that person that allows hate to grow for no reason, don’t let that be your story.
Lastly, be careful what you feed your mind, YOU GROW OFF IT.
And one will ask where I might get my information? ‘’it is amazing what you can get to know when you open a book.’’( wink wink)